April 24 2017 Week 17 Monday

Much effort, much prosperity.

越努力，越幸运。

I have ever seen this sentence in many people's signature of their social media applications, like WeChat, Tecent QQ, and so on.

I ever thought that may be true, if you make much more efforts, you would be able to do more things and you can achieve more, your life, your cause, will be more prosperous, that is so called, much effort, much prosperity, and much luck.

However, in most cases, the directions and fields may play a much more improtant role when deciding whether your efforts would be effective and whether they would be in vain or not.

Sometimes, things are so ironic, you have done a lot, you thought you have been well-prepared, neverthelesss, you failed to get things done, you failed to make your dreams true.

But don't be so discouraged, now that we have gone out here, we must have our jobs done, we must take all the abstacles down.

You are remembered for the rules you break.

你会因你打破的规则而被人铭记。

Yesterday I watched a film of India, named Dangal, a story about a great father who had the dream to win the gold medal for India, he taught his daughters how to wrestle and eventually the two girl became famous athletes in wrestling.

In one important race, he told his daughter: if you just have a silver medal, you will be forgot by people soon, but if you win a gold medal, you will be remembered forever, you will become the history, and you will affect many Indian girls.

She won the race, through hard fights against her rivals.

Yes, only when breaking the routine, only when breaking out of the comfortable zone, can we have the possiblity of being excellent.

And by becoming a rule breaker, we may win the respects of people.

Today we will continue our foregoing discussion about how to avoid being a bad man, we will list the rest of the 20 features of a rot man. 

16. He belittles you.

17. You are not his No.1 priority.

He would rather spend his time with his friends than have an occasional date night with you.

18. He doesn't like your friends.

19. He is disrespectful to your family.

20. He cheats on you.

That's all.

But some people say that there is no so called rot boy or girl.

Such things just show that he or she doesn't love you enough.

You should know such relationship may be bad for the both.

So just break up without any words, just break up as soon as possible.

That will be alright after you separate with the one who don't love you.

Your time is limited, don't waste your valuable youth on those people who can't spend the whole life with you.