【英语】TED视频笔记

2014-09-22

讲话的七宗罪呢：流言蜚语、评判、消极、抱怨、借口、浮夸、固执己见。

讲话的四个要素：HAIL - 诚实，做自己，说到做到，爱。

2014-09-23

Do more of the things i like to do and fewer of the things i don't like 做更多我喜欢做的事情，少做我讨厌的事情；

写日记！

创造幸福的七条定律：

不要带着压力去思考；去不同的地方，多旅行；不要整天玩电脑，电子设备；做与自己息息相关的事；拥有一些打印好的东西；从事于有实际影响的项目；创造一个项目，让你有一半新一半旧的感觉。

2014-09-24

"Don't tell me what other people have told you about yourself. Tell me about you."

「不要跟我说别人对你的看法!」 「我要听你怎么看待自己!」

That an important question in psychiatry shouldn't be what's wrong with you but rather what's happened to you.

关键问题不应该是 「你哪里不对劲?」 而是「发生甚么事了?」

You cannot humiliate the person who feels pride. You cannot oppress the people who are not afraid anymore.

自重之人不会为人所羞辱 无所畏惧之人 则不为人所压迫

2014-09-25

Dream Big.

2014-09-26

“So I take pleasure in weaknesses, insults, catastrophes, persecutions,and in pressures, because of Christ. For when I am weak, then I am strong.”

2014-10-09

它将我丢进山谷，却让我看到山峰，它把我丢入黑暗，却让我看到光明在哪。

2014-10-10

What would you get done that you're waiting to get done because you think you'll be here forever?

How would you change your relationships and the negative energy in them?

And more than anything, are you being the best parent you can?

2014-10-21

if not us then who if not now then when :P

2014-10-22

it mean nothing if you can't do it again and again

2015-04-26

I feel like it's easy to get caught up in the day-to-day, and forget what really matters to you

2015-07-09

• FORTUNE FAVORS THE BOLD

It was not my original plan but I got there -- eventually.

I hope if you find yourself on one path but longing for something else, you find a way to get there. And if that isn’t right, try again.  Try until you find something that stirs your passion, a job that matters to you and matters to others.It’s a luxury to combine passion and contribution.  It’s also a clear path to happiness.

• FEEDBACK IS A GIFT

speak up.  Even if you think it is what I have asked for, tell me I am wrong!

I firmly believe that you lead best when you walk side-by-side with your colleagues.  When you don’t just talk but you also listen.

• NOTHING IS SOMEONE ELSE’S PROBLEM

“leadership is about making others better as a result of your presence and making sure that impact lasts in your absence.“

you can do this for others over the course of your career.

• LEAN IN

2015-07-25

"There's one thing more -- there's just one more thing you better understand. I've taught myself to sew, cook, fix plumbing, build furniture, I can even pat myself on the back when necessary, all so I don't have to ask anyone for anything. There's nothing I need from anyone except for love and respect, and anyone who can't give me those two things has no place in my life."