Had I not seen the sun, I could have borne the shade. 我本可以忍受黑暗,如果我不曾见过阳光. A poem by Emily Dickinson, and the full text follows: Had I not seen the sun I could have borne the shade But light a newer wilderness My wilderness had made Aha, if just readi…

Every man is a poet when he is in love. 每个恋爱中的人都是诗人. It is said this saying was from Plato, the famous ancient philosopher. Notice that when you are dating with a girl, the romantic process may involve flowers, chocolate, sweet words and surprising g…

Much effort, much prosperity. 越努力,越幸运. I have ever seen this sentence in many people's signature of their social media applications, like WeChat, Tecent QQ, and so on. I ever thought that may be true, if you make much more efforts, you would be able…

The only thing more painful than learning from experience is not learning from experience. 比从经验中学习更为痛苦的事情就是没能从经验中学习. Learning from experience is painful, but the alternative of not learning is worse. Yes, it it easy to understand why not learning fro…

We read the world wrong and say that it deceives us. 我们把世界看错了,反而说它欺骗了我们. It is not a cakewalk to see the world clearly and read it in the right way. Sometimes we didn't attain the things we expected, we might complain that the world deceived us. Why…

Have you ever known the theory of chocie? There are a bunch of axiems, but there are only two thing we really need to concern with. One, the only person's behaviors that we can control are our own. And two, the only thing that we can truly give other…

It is a characteristic of wisdom not to do desperate things. 不做孤注一掷的事情是智慧的表现. We are told that we had better not to put all our eggs into one basket, that means, we must learn how to spread the risks so as to reduce the potential risks to the minimum…

We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars. 我们都生活在阴沟里,但仍有人仰望星空. In the past most of us had learned in our historical textbooks that history is created by the public, not just by those elites. But as we gradually grew up, we hav…

Happiness takes no account of time. 幸福不觉光阴过. Do you know the theory of relativity? If you know about that, you may know one story about Einstein, how did he explain his theory to those who were totally ignorant about that? He said in a funny way: Yea…

If you smile when no one else is around, you really mean it. 独处时的微笑,才是发自内心的. Recently I found I seldom smiled when I was alone. Most often I felt depressed and frustrated due to the obstacles I met both in life and work. And I become more and more pe…